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Enjoying the evening spring weather 🌤🌿🌺 and we found some bluebonnets in the front yard 💙💛

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While I think it’s good to search for joy, gratitude, and meaning in times like these, also understand that “negative” or “bad feelings” are perfectly okay and acceptable feelings right now. My social media feed is full of people finding joy at home with their families, and I love that, but what you’re not seeing are their struggles. Be careful not to start comparing your life to other people’s highlight reel. Don’t beat yourself up because you’re not the picture perfect homeschool mom, or you’re not seeming to adapt as quick as other to this new lifestyle.
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If you’re having a hard time right now - that’s okay! I am too! I’ve been triggered in every way possible and all of my habits are presenting themselves - anxiety, numbing, my inner critic, comparing, isolating, catastrophizing, perfectionism, people pleasing...you name it! The important thing is to listen to the thoughts in your head and question them. Try some self awareness today. When you can pause for just a minute and catch yourself freaking out, you can get yourself back to calm. Don’t put pressure on yourself today. Don’t try to get it all “right.” Just BE in the day. I’m going to work on this myself today. Praying I can search for some joy and calm my brain. I’m with you friend, I know we can get through this together. ❤️

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Our poor Sophie took a rattlesnake 🐍 bite to the eye last night 😳 she lost her eye but thankfully doesn’t seem to have brain damage. We got the anti venom just in time. Man that must have hurt!! I feel so bad for her! Praying she can fully recover but she’s not out of the woods just yet. Y’all be careful outside playing, snakes are coming out! ☀️🐍

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Enjoying the spring sunshine ☀️⛱ #firstswimoftheyear

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I keep having dreams that I’m lost + I’m running late...This is basically my worst nightmare because if you know me, I’m never late! In my dreams the circumstances are always different, but I find myself racing as fast as I can and not ever getting to my destination. I use a Dream App called DreamMoods - and this is what is said about dreaming you’re lost - “beings lost means that you are still adjusting to a new situation in which the rules and conditions are ever changing.”
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Well...that makes total sense considering our current crisis! Here is what is says about being late - “You may be overwhelmed or conflicted with decisions about your future. Time is running out and you no longer have time to accomplish all the things you want.”
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This explanation is a little more personal. I don’t necessarily feel that time is running out, I mean...maybe it is...but I do feel disappointment that I was just starting to make headway on my novel and now I’ve had to pause on those goals to adjust to a new way of life. So I guess I do feel that I no longer have time to accomplish the things I want. Has anyone else been having crazy dreams like this?? Anyone else feel lost? They say that crisis shows your truest self - that’s why I chose this quote, “Lost is a lovely place to FIND yourself” - to see yourself once again. We are adjusting to new rules, ever changing situations - but we will not be lost for long. We will not be late for long. We will get through this, find ourselves, see ourselves, and be stronger than ever before. ❤️❤️ #lostbutnotforlong

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Celebrating Drew’s 12th Birthday today!! We are so grateful for this special boy and so so proud of him!! We had to make some adjustments to our birthday traditions but we’ve decided on a Lego Master home challenge followed by board games and ice cream cake. Thankful for Amazon for delivering two presents + I reused his Birthday banner from when he turned five. Making memories and finding joy on his special day. ❤️❤️

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In this scary and uncertain time, each and every one of you are in my heart. I wake up thinking every day, how can I show up for you to help you through this time? How can I tell you that you're not alone? How can I help you feel comforted knowing you have women standing beside you and lifting you up? The anxiety, pain, fear, disappointment, and overwhelm is real and at all of our doorsteps. The one thing I keep telling myself is Faith over Fear. When I think about Faith, my Fear disappears. Having Faith is not as easy as being afraid, so it takes self awareness and practice. Each time you are fearful, pause and think to yourself, have faith. I hope this little piece of advice can ease your heart at least a few times in the upcoming weeks. Please feel free to reach out to me! We need each other now more than ever, and isolating (while it is nice especially for an introvert like me!) is not the answer. Let's keep in touch okay? #faithoverfear

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